Ask your mother this: As a woman have you ever felt threatened or unsafe or less-than because of a man? Ask her. Did you tell anyone? Every time? Call the cops? File a complaint?
My story is not remarkable, ask any woman. Not including the boyfriend who abused me in multiple ways and broke my rib, just the ones that come to mind easily… When I was 6, a bunch of older boys stole my books and harassed me and asked me to show my underwear. -I was timid but I did it because I needed my books back. I told my mother and she told me no matter what anyone said or did, I should never let anyone make me do anything.